the tub

I have two, yes two clawfoot tubs that were left behind. They will one day be a beautiful addition to the house. One of the tubs will be in our Master Bathroom while the other will be in the common upstairs bathroom.

Here is the picture of the one that will one day be in the common upstairs bathroom.

Ok now, close your eyes and picture it

1: clean and the feet actually attached to both sides

2: painted black on the bottom and the feet

3: new sparkling chrome hardware and a beautiful white ruffly shower curtain swooping around it hanging from a beautiful chrome shower surround.

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Here is where it will sit on top of vintage hexagon black and white tile.

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Come on, I know you have imagination. If not, just keep your eyes closed.

Love,

the girl who will one day soak in this tub, bubbles and all.

 

 

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Restoration/Transformation

23-113 year old nasty,some rotten windows to restore. This is a sample of half of one window.

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These two have spent weeks and weeks doing the same thing every day.

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They scrape and they sand. They glaze and they paint. Their dedication to the windows has been extraordinary and it’s paying off.

How you ask?

Because they are going back in baby!!!

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Here you have, one stunning old window restored back to it’s original beauty.

They have been repaired and restored. They have new glass and new rope that hang the  weights that will allow the windows to raise and lower.

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While we will continue being excited, we still have lots to go. You have to start somewhere and we have definitely started. Stay tuned.

 

Love,

the girl who is sick of wearing a sweatshirt to  work. Come on Spring!!!

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Window overload

The windows have been a big deal since day 1.

The first day I saw the wavy glass, I might have choked up a little.

The first day I saw the mis-matched windows along the whole back I might have sobbed a little.

No matter the emotion, we knew that they would:

#1 be ridiculously expensive and

#2 would be ridiculously hard to restore

However, we have been able to purchase windows for the “little house” so now all the windows match and will allow Mom and Dad to be cozy warm in the winter and super cool in the summer. They also match so well with the original 113 year old wood windows that will stay in the majority of the “big house.” We have had to replace a few of the big house windows too. Naked girls room has 3 new windows, the Master Bath has a beautiful new double window and the laundry room/mud room windows had to be replaced. Thank goodness we were able to restore the original windows or our entire house budget would have been used on windows.

Here are a few before and after pictures of the new windows. I know they may not look like much to you since the siding is pretty shabby and there is still so much to do but let me tell you……….each day we see things changing and definitely for the better!

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Just wait until you see the restored old windows. 4 went in today!!!

love,

the girl who gets really excited about the small things.

 

 

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We get by with a little help from our friends

This is Chris and his family.

Chris and family

Chris has skills.

Steve is the most talented carpenter I know and as we progress on our house, he sometimes needs help. However he doesn’t like to ask for help and has a little issue with control. He knows how he likes things and that’s that. I brought to Steve’s attention that Chris might have the skills to provide some much needed help while he is currently waiting on a new job to start.

Chris comes over and this is the picture he sends me the first day on the job.

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My thought was he was taking off a few pieces of rotten siding and replacing with shiny new pieces. OK, well not so much. The whole wall is GONE!!! On the other side of the window is my parents kitchen. Not that you can tell from this picture but you will just have to trust me.

Later in the day when the second shift comes in – that’s me – and after a coat of primer – painted by me – this is what the end of the day looked like. Still a little to go on the top but oh.my.word. Skills.

Two days later, Chris is back. The front porch is on the agenda. As a recap…

The current front porch had 3 doors. The first door on the far right in the picture went to apartment 1, the second door  in the middle went to the stairs to apartments 3 & 4 and the third door on the far left went to apartment 2

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currently the door to apartment 2 is boarded up with plywood.

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I got to the house around 11:30am this morning and this is what I find. Another wall completely gone. I think there is a pattern. Chris?

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But by the end of the day, we have a solid wood sided wall and we are down to two doors!!!

It doesn’t look like much YET but just wait. The front door is supposed to come in next week. We don’t have any drywall but we will have an awesome front door.

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I told Chris today that him being there was much more than just a job; he was giving Steve the gift of someone being able to come in and fill his shoes, something that isn’t done often.

Love,

the girl who is thankful for someone else able to swing a hammer, use the chop saw and go higher on the ladder than the third rung.

 

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part of my heart

Today I attended a “New Small Group Host” training. Why did attend? I am the Assistant to the Small Groups Pastor at Church of Hope. I’m sure he didn’t “need” me to be there but administratively I think I help.

As people introduced themselves as we went around the table, they stated their names and why they wanted to “host” a new group. So many great answers!! I am super excited to get to know and assist these new hosts in taking their next steps. I am the last person to speak. I’m not a new host so what do I say? I’m there to pass out papers and make sure everyone knows how to log into the data base. I’m not there to share. But it gets to me and Rob looks over and says “Charma?”

“Oh hey! I’m Charma. I am a Hope staffer as well as Rob’s assistant for small groups. I have been a small group leader/host for 3 years. I love my small group, they are a piece of my heart.”

They are a piece of my heart? That statement has resinated with me all afternoon (except during my nap) and I have pondered over and over what that means.

I am a big personality, duh everyone knows that. I am loud and kind of bossy. I like lists and I am a get-er-done kind of girl. However what people don’t know is that I really don’t like to share about me. I can talk house and surface stuff but deep down and dirty. No thank you.  And of course I cry…….a lot.

This morning one of my groupees came up today and told me about a candle that she had that we could use for the wedding. OK, so not a big deal….wrong. The candle might not be a big deal but this woman cared enough about me and my family to think about how she can help with the wedding. She doesn’t have to care but she does and her wanting to be a part of our lives by sharing her candle hit me straight in the heart today. She has a piece of my heart.

The stories go on and on.

The reason I say all this is because you shouldn’t miss out. You shouldn’t miss out on the relationships you will form with complete strangers. They won’t be strangers for long. They become friends and confidants. They are people that will be your favorites. They will hug you when you need to be hugged and tell you when you are being a jerk. They will pray for you and bring you dinner when life is hard. They will celebrate your biggest victories and cry with you during your hardest of life’s trials. They become your best friends and the ones you want to spend your free time with. My group includes biological families but that doesn’t really matter because I consider all of them family.

I will be praying for and helping the people in the picture below. I want them to experience Small Groups the way I have. You will be sharing a piece of your heart, I promise.

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love

the girl who will be using the candle.

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Decisions

Each time we have moved the house needed updating. A new floor here, paint some walls there, update the kitchen, add a pool. You know, updating. NOT STARTING FROM THE BEGINNING. I have listened to people who have built homes say how hard it is. In the back of my mind…..”Oh please, I could build 3 houses with my eyes closed, twirling around in a circle and singing the Star Spangled Banner at the same time.” Well I WAS WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG and WRONG.

It’s hard!!!!!!!!!! I pride myself of being able to look at a space and figure out what to do with it. However this house is stretching me. I want to keep the integrity of it being a historic home with charm but I also want the WOW factor. Yes I want WOW.

Oh my word. I have looked at 50 different kitchen countertops and every time I think I find one I like, it doesn’t go with the backsplash I love or the range hood clashes or it’s just plain ugly. Or the best reason would be it cost a gajillion dollars. I have searched Pinterest, Houzz, I have read blog after blog and Google now hates me.

Another big issue is this house is big. When it’s finished, there will be 7 bedrooms and      5 1/2 bathrooms and 2 kitchens. All which need vanities and tile, cabinets and countertops, toilets and faucets. OH MY WORD!!!! Overwhelmed should be my word for the year but noooooooo I chose breathe.

I have tried to take one room at a time and decide what it will look like. However I start looking at pictures and then……..SQUIRREL……..I’m off into another room or paint color or curtain swatch or or or or or or.

I completely know that I have nothing to complain about. I have this great house that will someday be incredible and I can’t wait for that to happen but in the meantime if you see me staring off into space with a glazed look about me, just tap me and say “Naval” because that’s one paint color I am completely confident in.

love,

the girl who WILL choose her kitchen countertops this weekend

P.S.

Remember “Naval” and don’t be scared if this is what I look like

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To be like Dad

Today we celebrated the life of Michael Roland O’Connor

(December 8, 1923 – January 16, 2016).

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I did not know Mike, as he was known by, but I know his son and his daughter in law. Glenn spoke at his father’s funeral today. I’m not sure I could have done that. He spoke so eloquently and loving towards the man who longer lives on earth but is celebrating with his wife and eating ‘nana pudding that he no longer has to share.

As the preacher spoke today he said that Mike “ended well.” He spoke of 1 Corinthians Chapter 13 and how Mike lived the words of this well known scripture.

Love is patient

Love is kind

It does not want what belongs to others

It does not brag

It is not proud

It is not rude

It does not look out for its own interests

It does not easily become angry

It does not keep track of other people’s wrongs

Love is not happy with evil, but is full of joy when the truth is spoken.

It always trusts – hopes – and it NEVER gives up.

Mike made his advanced reservation for heaven and lived a life that his family could and did speak so highly of. He was loved. That was very obvious. He was buried with military honors and as the bugle played taps…..I cried. Not only for the loss that my friend will now have to make a new normal but for the men and women that serve our country and protect us all.

As I stood next to my son singing How Great Thou Art it resinates how we never take advantage of the time we have on earth. Love well and don’t hesitate to make your advanced reservation in heaven.

Glenn hopes to be like his Dad, and after today, he has some pretty big shoes to fill.

Love,

C

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Sweat Equity

We are planning a wedding.

Courtney and Justin

The big news is…..the wedding is going to be at our house. The house that looks like this.

Yes, all this and a port-o-potty on top of all the rest of the beauty.

Courtney asked if the wedding could take place at the new/old house. Really?? It looks like a crack house or maybe on the demolition list for the city of Ocala. But if she wants it, we are going to do it. I did however, insist to Justin that he CANNOT bring his family by the house noting that this is where the wedding will take place. They will either think he has lost his mind or they will wonder who in the world’s family he is getting involved with.

Since we have been neck deep in renovations on the inside so that we can actually live here someday, there has been conversations about providing some free labor in the yard since the wedding will take place in the backyard.

So these two cuties have been coming over and putting in their time. I am super proud of them and what they are putting forth to make sure that their wedding is a day they will always remember.

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No one and I mean NO ONE has cared about the yard in a very very very long time. During one of the cleaning sessions, here is the fruit of Courtney’s labor.

6 beer bottles/cans

a soccer ball

a football

a paint can

and last but not least, a vomit pan from the hospital.

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love,

the girl who will soon be a Mother in law.

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The GOOD – The BAD – The UGLY

There are so many good things happening at the old/new house. There are people working everyday everywhere and it’s so exciting.  We have had air conditioners installed. Yes you read correctly, plural air conditioners. Big House downstairs – Big House upstairs –  and the Little House. Notice we have a big beast air conditioner and lovely plywood still covering the windows.

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Here are the two tankless hot water heaters. Instant, never ending hot water?? Yes please.

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The bad is not really bad, it’s just what goes along with renovation. Doesn’t everyone have to unscrew the plywood everyday to open the back door? And the lovely pile of garbage that hangs out in the yard.

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And come on!!! Who doesn’t love a toilet hanging out on the gross disgusting patio that you should be afraid to walk up the stairs.

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this hole…..will soon be covered up.

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Old bathroom windows. Half of the aluminum siding and half of the original wood siding. But hey! Look at that brick chimney. There is beauty if you look.

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Pick your favorite window look……..the clear plastic sheeting – the black garbage bags –  or the plywood.

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It’s good, bad and a lot of ugly but it’s ours.

Love,

the girl who loves the guy that removes the plywood door everyday.

 

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Who?

Who do you trust when things are tough? Really?

My friend is sitting with her husband today during his father’s last days on earth. My co-worker just buried her grandfather yesterday and today gets the call that her other grandfather has entered heaven. My bandmate’s mother was diagnosed with Alzheimers. My friend lost his job. My oldest friend is currently dealing with a sick husband. My Dad is constantly struggling with the effects of cancer. The list goes on and on.

We all have stuff. Sometimes it is really bad. Sometimes it’s a daily struggle. Sometimes it’s a long drawn out ordeal. Sometimes it’s not.

No matter what it is….are you laying it at the feet of Jesus or are you carrying it around on your shoulders? Are you trusting the one who died for you and loves you more than anyone else or are you hanging onto with it for deal life? Believe me, I am guilty of all of the above.

Breathe is my word for the year? Why you ask? I have to remind myself to breathe in and out. That sounds pathetic that I must remind myself to breathe. My shoulders are wrapped around my ears and the knots in my neck are suffocating me. I’m in the car and I’m thinking about my day job at Church of Hope, my friends who are suffering, the house we are restoring and the many MANY things that go with that, my daughters wedding that is quickly approaching, Kyle is starting grad school and moved to a new town, my parents,  and the list goes on and on and on.

You get it. We all have extremely hectic lives.

As I remind myself to breathe everyday, I have included a prayer. It could be 1 minute long or it could be a song I love to sing. I sometimes cry or call someone. All of this doesn’t matter if I don’t leave it all at the cross.

All I am trying to say is stop for a second or two. Take a breath. Thank God for the blessing that he gives us everyday. It might not be the blessing you are looking for  but your story is already written. Just wait and see what happens and trust that the best is yet to come.

Breathe

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